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Has anyone successfully configured Elementary OS Loki for RDP or VNC? I really like Elementary OS and would like to use it for my headless development environment and keep the desktop Pantheon Desktop.
I know that I can install XFCE or Mate and VNC to it, but I'd like to use Pantheon if it is possible. I've come across various blogs, etc. that successfully remote desktop to Unity and they didn't work for me with Pantheon. I thought maybe someone else has had some success, so thought I'd ask.